Sex Starved? Here’s how to handle it

Sex is good! Sex is great! Sex is awesome but why are some people having so much of it while others… well, can’t even get laid on the weekend? How do you move from sex once, twice, trice or every day of the week to no sex at all? How do you solve such a sex starved human’s problem?

If you love sex so much, why restrict yourself from getting it anytime, anywhere? Why create rules to prevent you – especially you who is still single – from having sex with the person you’d like to have it with? What particularly is preventing you from having sex?

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These questions run through the minds of the sex starved and at the end of the day, they can’t answer them correctly. When you can figure out what’s preventing you from getting sex, then you are one step towards finding a solution.

Some people complain about work, their kids, the structure of their houses, how many people live in their house etc as reasons why they can’t get enough sex, have it the way they would like it or have it at all. They’re right. The afore mentioned could be huge obstacles to having great sex or any sex at all but what ever happened to motels, inns, a friends or relatives place or a hotel?

Oh, did I miss informing you there’s something called booty calls? Yes, it works! Dial that number when you feel horny. Call someone till you get a “yes, I’m on my way” response. Last I checked, booty calls don’t make you look cheap, it satisfies your need. So don’t prevent yourself from having sex every now and then just because you’re bothered about what he/she thinks about you making the first move.

Get a dildo for God’s sake! Sex toys don’t exist for nothing! Go get yourself something to take care of that sexual need of yours… at least before you get the real deal. If you get my drift. Lol.

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You can also go on a trip and have sex with a total stranger – erm… not just anybody. Abeg shine your eyes oh! At least there, you won’t be worried if anyone recognizes you, knows who or what you are. Keep it sexy and fun.

If you are sex starved, go out more! Staying locked up in a house all day working or watching TV won’t help your genitals! Go out! Hang out with those crazy friends you’ve been trying to avoid for years. They know the drill and could put you through. Don’t be shy to talk with strangers or exchange numbers while out of your house.

Change your dressing code! What is it you love about those unflattering clothes? Kaba ngondo, over all… abeg go and get yourself some sexy things – short skirts, hot shots, body hugging gowns and also invest in your makeup. FYI, red lipstick is always a killer!

Anyways, all these things are here to help you get out of your sex-fasting days and go get somthin’

Hope it helps,

Joan #joanonsex

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