For the 100th time, threesome is not a taboo… at least, not anymore! So guys, chillax!
Gone are the days when missionary was the only satisfactory sex position. Today, people do a lot of inventory things to make their sex lives way better than 10 years ago. I mean, even our parents are jumping on the, if not any, opportunity to get their sex lives alive again! So, what’s the big deal about threesome being one of those things?
I received a letter from a fan the other day and she was freaking out about her man asking for a threesome, even though it was for their own sex betterment. Here’s what she said,
Hello Joan, I don’t know if you receive letters from your readers but I really need your help with this. My boyfriend of three years is asking for us to have a threesome. He says it’s great for our sex life and will love for us to try it sometime. I know when Jake starts demanding for something. He won’t stop until it happens else he will blame me for ruining our sex life, then our relationship. I don’t want to lose my relationship over this but I have never done this before. I am lost and confused. Please help me figure this out. Jocelyne, Bonanjo, Douala.
Hi Jocelyne,
I totally understand why you are feeling this is awkward or impossible to do given he’s never asked for this before. But do know that things change every day and that also includes our sex habits. Jake is not wrong. He just wants you guys to have fun and get the best life is offering. Guys love to explore sex and I don’t know why you shouldn’t. Girl, be open to have a threesome with your man but know the rules. The third party can’t be a friend or family member. He or she should be a complete stranger and be gone as soon as you guys are done. No contacting after that.
Threesome cannot be a bad thing if it’s used to savage a relationship. No one has to do it unprotected. There’s no room for distrust. Both parties have to be in agreement. No one is to be forced to do it. It should be fun not stress. So, unless you DON’T want to do it, go on and have fun with your man. Remember that you can be in control of the whole damn thing!
Jocelyne please come back to tell us how everything went… if this helped your relationship. I am waiting.
#joanonsex
